BUDDHIST STORY ON HABIT | SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE 

Friends, in this video we will talk about seven habits. By adopting, any ordinary person can become an influential person. And if you make it a habit of your life, you will not even know that The people around you will continue to be influenced by you and wherever you go, people will be drawn towards you, but before that on the occasion of this Diwali, There are various chances to win Diwali Gifts and vouchers. So watch the video till the end, So let's start through a story. 

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A young person was worried about the thing that he is not an influential person. He was not able to attract people through his way of talking, and all. His desire was to become a person who liked by everyone. 

The people listen to him, want to work with him, and want to spend time too. But everything was just the opposite of it, no one likes to spend time with him. No one takes him seriously. 

Overall, he was fully ineffective among the people. His presence does not much matter to anyone. His confidence was also going down due to these incidents. 

The boy used to be sad and worried after watching such condition. A Buddhist monk lived outside the city where the boy lived. That Buddhist monk was famous for his much influential personality. 

The person who met to him, get influenced by him. The way of his talking, the way he understand people. The way to teach people was so affective and attractive. Everyone says that he is a very influential person. 

There is such magic in his personality that it mesmerizes anyone. One evening, the boy was sitting on the bank of the pond with a sad heart. Then one of his friends comes to him and says that friend I have found a solution to your problem. Hearing this the boy becomes very happy and asks, what is the solution? 

Then his friend tells that I have come to know about such a Buddhist monk who is rich in influential personality. And I am sure that he will definitely have a solution for this problem of yours.

 The boy agrees with his friend and the next morning both of them reach that Buddhist monk. Boy tells all his problem to Buddhist monk, how he want to become an influential person. But even after trying a lot, he is not able to become such a person.

 The Buddhist monk listened carefully to the monk and then said So what do you want? The boy says that people says that your personality is very impressive. So how can I make my personality as impressive as yours. Hearing this, 

the Buddhist monk said seriously that first of all listen, to become influential, It is not necessary to have good personality but it is necessary to have a good character. Because if someone has a good personality then he can influence people for some time. 

But very soon people will understand that there is some meaning or purpose behind his work. But if you have a good character, it stays with you for the rest of your life. And you go on influencing people around you without you even realizing it. 

But remember this, for it you have to change from inside. So are you ready to change youself from inside to become an influential person. The boy said, Mahatma, 

I will try my best. So the Buddhist monk said that there are seven habits inside an influential person which you need to accept it. The monk started saying that the first habit should be active i.e. be proactive. 

We cannot change whatever happens around us but it is in our hands to react. Being an active person means that we don't get distracted by what people around us say. When people say something bad about us,

 the fault is not in us but in them. Whatever negative thing they are saying about us shows their negative attitude. The perspective from which he is looking at the world. Being an proactive person also means that we should not affected by any situation. 

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Then whether is bad or there is some problem in the house, it doesn't matter to an active person. Bad times come in his life or poverty, he will be happy in any situation. A proactive person continues to do his work even in the worst of situation without complaining. And even in the good time of his life, he does not get wild but keep himself calm and composed. The opposite of active people is reactive people,

 such people get influenced very quickly by the other people. If someone criticizes him, he becomes sad and if someone praises him, he becomes happy. If something bad happens to such person, 

he himself becomes bad. Then you must have understood that a reactive person can never become an effective person. Because its control is in hand of another person, whenever the other person make him angry. 

Whereas the control of an active person is completely in their hands. No one can hurt or disturb him unless he himself wants to. It doesn't matter what other people say or think about him. That's why an active person is an influential person, 

so you also have to become an active person not reactive. Habit 2: Begin with the end in the mind. It means that whenever you are making a big goal then you should clearly know why you are doing this work. And how to complete, it means from the beginning of work, 

you should know the reason and plan of the work. Once you have found out your why and how, then after that small daily tasks should go towards the goal. Your plan should match, if you are not doing what it is necessary for your goals. so you can never become an effective person,

 if you aimed to put on weight. And if you are not working out and sweating everyday. so it means that your daily activities are not matching with your goals and plans. There is difference between your words and actions, so in this way people will never be impressed by you. Therefore, if you want to become an influential person, 

you clearly know the reason for work and way to accomplish it. And your though and action should match with it. But friends, even after trying a lot, you are not able to decide what to do? How to do and why to do? 

This means that you are not able to think about you goal clearly. Because as soon as you get clear inside your work then it is easy to do that work. And thinking about any work with full focus and clarity is an art. You can also learn this art and to learn it you can read the book " The art of thinking clearly". And if you do not have time to read this book, then to go through the topic of this book in short, You can listen to the summery of this book on KUKUFM. You must know KUKUFM, 

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 the third habit is to do the important things first. There are many things in front of us in a day, but we cannot do everything. so we should do our important things first. But what is important work? 

Important work is the work which we personally consider the important. Putting the most important things first means we are focusing our energy and time to fulfill our goals. And if you are not able to complete your important tasks.

 The reason for this is not you are undisciplined, but it means till now you have put your work in your heart and mind. and never though why this work is most important to you. The real problem is not the overwork, 

but the habit of not saying no to the unnecessary work. Like you are doing some very important work and you friend of yours comes and say, let's go for a while. and talk a while, but if your important work is in your mind,

 then you will definitely refuse him to go with all politeness. And this is what you have to do, say no to useless things until your important work is completed. Now you must have understood that influential people finish important tasks first. Habit 4: In any work, 

think about your own benefit as well as the benefit of others. Most people live their lives comparing and competing with others. He sees his success in the failure of others. Means if I win then you lose and if you win then I lose. And in this way life becomes a game of victory and defeat. 

But influential people do not believe in competition but in mutual support. They believe that there is enough of everything in this world for everyone. They should get their part and apply this rule not only in things but also in relationships. 

Like if he has a difference of opinion with someone, instead of keeping it in mind, he talks openly with him. And find a middle way that is beneficial for both. In which both win, not the other side feel lost. And even by doing this, you end up fighting and also make the relationship stronger. So now you must have understood, to be effective, 

you have to see the benefits of others along with yourself. Habit 5: First try to understand others, then expect them to understand you. The best way to have a conversation with someone is to first understand what the other person want to say. Rather,

 I would say that the easiest way to understand any person is to put ourselves in his place. Only then we will be able to understand properly what the other person wants to say. When we do not listen to someone's words carefully, 

then without understanding his feelings, we start giving advice. But when we try to understand him then only we get to know how that person is really feeling. And when we listen to someone in this way, then we will be able to give good advice to that person. and really be able to help him,

 most of the people we talked, keep saying that If I were in your place, I would have done this or else listen to me for once and see. But he never tries to understand what the other person is feeling. And the result is that the person in front is not able to trust them, nor does he ever bring his problems. That's why if you really want to help someone, 

first try to understand them. And by doing this you will be able to win their trust and they will be sure that There is no profit and motive behind your work. You want to help him and then in this way, he will also start understanding you. And that's the fifth rule of being an effective person. Buddhist monk said 5th is influencers work with mutual understanding and collaboration Those who influence others always understand that two minds are better than one. T

hat is why they try to solve any problem by cooperating with each other. But because of human feeling, it is not so easy to establish coordination. Because everyone has a different perspective to see the world and influential people understand this too. 

That is why they try to understand and accept each other's thoughts and views. That's why they work together forgetting fights as they understand, each person has a different experience. And when people with a wide variety of experiences and thinking work together.

 Then the result is much better than a human. That's why influential people like to work with different people. So that he can get some new and different experience. Monk says the influential people last habit. 

Do something everyday to keep yourself physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually fresh. Effective people understand very well that the most important things in their life is their body and their mind. And to keep strong and fresh, they do and learn something new everyday. He does some activity every day to keep his body strong and healthy, 

exercise and yoga practice. He keeps reading something new every day to fill his mind with information. For this he reads books, talks to people or goes for a walk around the place. Effective people are effective because they keep learning something new throughout their life. 

Keeps on giving information to himself. These people resort to meditation or solitude to keep themselves emotionally fresh. These people sometimes separate themselves from the world to bring newness within themselves. Apart from this, these people are also spiritually active. For that, in whatever god they believe in,

 they worship it. In simple words, effective people keep constantly improving themselves. and keep their body, mind and soul fresh. And if seen carefully, out of all the habits, 

this seventh habit is the most important and effective. Because without it, the other six habits cannot be as effective as it should be. No matter how influential a person is, if he does not keep himself refreshed physically, mentally, spiritually, 

so he will slowly start losing its effect. So these were the seven habits of Being an effective Person By adopting this, any person can become effective. After listening Buddhist monk, the boy was convinced,

 he could become an influential person by accepting 7 habits. For this, he thanked the Buddhist monk very much and happily went away with his friend. Friends,

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